情為何物 | 一個愛情的兩個空間
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最近一直在與男友談分手的問題,他提出來過,我也提出來過,可始終分不開。

我總是認為戀愛中的男女如果分手,一定是彼此不再相愛,或者其中一人變了心。

可我仍愛著他,他也從未否認過不愛我了,於是,我流著淚問:「為什麼呢?」他抱頭痛苦:「不知道。」


到底是什麼阻擋了我們的愛情,非要兩個相愛的人變成陌生的路,我檢討自己:是不是我的脾氣不夠好,是不是我的職位太高呢?是不是我的收入比他豐厚,是不是我不夠溫柔呢?

他說你已經夠好了,獨立、細心、能幹、有個性,可是我突然覺得太累了,我沒有了自己的空間。

我們從相愛開始,幾乎形影不離,甜蜜的如膠似漆漸漸變成了我們生活的全部,工作以外的時間我們成了彼此的影子。


對於女人來說,這樣的生活時間越長,就越有安全感,但對於男人,長久的“相依為命”就成了束縛或者包袱。

他從不輕易對我說:『NO』 每天的晚飯在哪裡吃,吃完飯是看電影還是打保齡,總是我來安排,每週末的節目也都是我的打算,就連去看望他的父母時買什麼樣的禮物,向來是我一手包辦的。

如果他有反對意見,我就會因為計劃被打亂而皺眉頭、賭氣,免不了也有臉紅脖子粗的時候。


我曾一度洋洋得意自己策劃生活的能力,也習慣為我們的愛情安排每一個步驟:該慶祝周年紀念時,儘管有一場他特別想看的足球賽即將轉播,他也會衣衫整齊地陪我坐在燭光晚餐前,我需要他陪我去Shopping,他就必須和聊得正熱火的網友說:886。

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