情為何物 | 愛情很簡單(忍耐6分鍾)
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雨過後是個艷陽天,早上把家裡每個角落打掃得一塵不染,然後把自己床上的被子抱出去曬著,讓它們吸收太陽的香味。到了下午,坐在陽臺那扇落地窗前,讓陽光柔柔地瀉進房間。給自己泡一杯熱茶,看著手裡這只透明的小碗似的玻璃杯,心底溫潤恬靜。


這只杯子是多年前母親送的,和一套包裝拙樸的茶葉盒裝在一起,杯底有幾行紅顏色小字。茶葉早已喝完了,這只杯子我一直留著,每次用它,總是想起剛結婚頭幾年的日子。


那時婚禮舉行後,同住在一個屋簷下。本以為從此郎情妾意地全是陽光燦爛,不曾想卻為一點雞毛蒜皮的事整天吵吵鬧鬧,怎麼也找不到相濡以沫的感覺。只要有一點兒事不合心意,不是吵架就是立刻掉頭就走。吵架越來越多的結果是,做丈夫的大叫要離婚,我也不甘示弱,說離婚就離婚,誰還怕誰不成?


夜裡,我蒙著被子不停地流淚,原來那個溫柔體貼好脾氣的男人哪裡去了?我難道就要跟這樣一個抵死不肯認錯,什麼事都要跟我針尖麥芒的男人一起再過20年、30年?我要的婚姻怎會是這個樣子?那種風和日麗、晴空萬裡的日子還會不會回來?……


忍不住去跟母親訴苦,下定決心說要離婚。母親卻說天下沒有不吵架的夫妻,你們總是爭吵不休不是因為你們有天大矛盾,只是因為你們欠缺成年人應有的耐心和細心。你總認為男人應該有寬闊的胸襟,包容的氣度,讓你任性胡來。他也是初為人夫年輕氣盛,人家憑什麼回回讓著你?你為什麼不能在吵架的時候忍耐一下?


母親說完起身去廚房泡了杯茶給我。這是什麼味道?又苦又澀!哪裡是茶?分明是劣質中藥!我立刻從嘴裡吐出來。母親看著我搖搖頭,說這茶是去旅行時,在一家寺院旁邊的小店裡買的,味道很是特別。


母親說,你再試一下,這次不要吐出來。我又喝一口,這次不那麼苦了,還是有些澀。母親說喝這種茶不能急,要細細地品味,每一分鍾的味道都不同。每一遍味道也不同。我再品一口,濃濃的清苦過後竟是一種回甘。


母親拿來一個長方形的紙盒,裡面有一隻粗粗笨笨的小木盒裡裝著這種看上去黑黑的茶,另外卻配了一隻透明的小碗一樣的漂亮杯子。杯子的底部用紅色寫著一行英文,直譯過來是這樣的——『試一試你對人生能付出多少勇力和毅力:1分鍾、味道真太糟糕!2分鍾、又苦又澀。3分鍾、忍耐一下不要急於放棄!4分鍾、我們理解你的感受。5分鍾、現在會有一些清香。6分鍾、苦盡甘來,你盡可以開懷暢飲!』


母親說如果對生活沒有足夠的耐心和勇氣,就連一杯看似普通的茶都能欺騙你。就像平常人家的婚姻生活,平庸和苦澀下常有甜蜜和溫情。只需要你在必要的時候耐心一點,讓自己心平氣和下來,你會覺得事情遠沒有那麼嚴重,就像這杯茶遠沒有那麼苦澀一樣。然後,你就會換一種心情給對方。記得紅樓夢裡那個鏡子謎語的謎面吧:人笑亦笑,人哭亦哭。


夫妻其實就是對方的鏡子。對他笑一笑又能吃什麼虧?記住,他是你要共度一生的男人。那一次我在母親家裡呆到下午,拿著玻璃杯翻來覆去地看著上面的字,想了又想。


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