情為何物 | 一個女人的18條嫁人經驗
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我31歲才結婚,現在過得很好。在天涯潛水很多年了,看了好多姐妹們的悲慘故事,自己也經歷了好幾段非常讓人痛苦的感情。現在,和愛人及其家人相處非常好。我想,我還是有些經驗可以給還在感情路上摸索的姐妹們借鑒的。我不是想自誇什麼自己過得好,只是我覺得我們更需要從自己的錯誤中學會成長,決不能在自己摔過的坑裡一摔再摔。希望這些經驗姐妹們在戀愛和婚姻中用得上。

  1.最主要,女生還是要努力讓自己出色些,從能力到容貌。
  台灣有名廣告詞:認真的女人最美麗。每個人都有選擇自己生活方式的權利,但一定要認真,對自己,對工作,對生活,這樣的女人就算不是天生麗質,也有一種自信從容的美,只有這樣一種美才能和時間對抗,也才是好男人欣賞的類型。玩弄生活玩弄男人的人最終也會被玩弄。
  可能很多姐妹不是工作上很出色的人,能把自己收拾得干淨清爽,也是一個很大的優點。不管怎麼說,現實中的男人還是首先容易以貌取人的,不是所以的男人都只愛最美的女人,對於干淨清爽的女人,大多數男人還有有好感的。

  2.好男人,對自己有要求,對女人沒要求。
  凡是自己對工作得過且過,卻對自己的女友有諸多要求的男人,還是敬而遠之比較好。這樣的男人,婚後變得毒舌男的機率最高。我們姐妹嫁人,最少要求的是被自己的丈夫尊重,認為自己有權利對妻子呼來喝去的男人不是好的結婚對像。

  3.嫁人最主要看人品,性格。
  相似的性格,相似的人生觀、金錢觀是婚姻生活最好的保障。個性不同,兩個人平日裡都說不來,就算是全世界都公認是金童玉女,天生一對,也是不能嫁的,畢竟你的一生中大多數時間是要與他共度的,冷暖自知。

  4.一開始就說配不上你的男人,以後他永遠都會配不上你。
  對一些出色的女生來說,總會遇上一些看似潛力股的男人,你為他改變自己,付出全部,他卻說,你對他太好了,他的(學歷,金錢,能力,地位,相貌等等)配不上你。我身邊好多姐妹們的例子證明,沒有自信,只能靠你屈就才能交往的男人,以後對你不會好的,你的出色只會讓他更自卑。

  5.托付終身前,要看一看他的家人。
  不是看他家有多少錢,是看他家家人是不是家庭和睦,關心禮讓。一個家人中有男人打女人,大家還不聞不問,裝作沒看見的家庭,以後也不會管你的死活的。每個家庭都有缺點,要問清自己男友的態度,一味愚忠的男人,心裡對妻子的尊重是有限的。

  6.對自己手緊,對女友也手緊的男人沒有情趣。對自己手松,對女友手緊的男人一定自私,是最不能嫁的。
  金錢是最能看出一個男人本質和感情的東西。姐妹們談戀愛不是談錢,但如果他在錢上讓你感覺不對,就該好好想想他是不是合適你了。在談戀愛的時候,正常的消費是應該的,見面開始就說清要AA的男人太精於算計,也太怕吃虧了。在未來的婚姻中,有許多需要人犧牲的地方,這樣的男人會最先跑掉。

  7.打人的男人不能要,被打一次一定要分手。
  花心的,腳踩幾條船的男人不能要,發現一次一定要分手。老話說了,當斷不斷,反受其亂。

  8.戀愛中女生要有自己的底線。
  決不能因為愛他,就放棄自己的尊嚴,侮辱自己的父母,拋棄自己的工作。好的感情,婚姻一定是雙贏,而不是單方面的犧牲和成全。

  9.遇到自己喜歡的男人,一定要勇敢去追。
  單戀是最傷人的,也是最沒有結果的。

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