情為何物 | 原來放棄也是一種快樂
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人的情感總是希望有所得,以為擁有的東西越多,自己就會越快樂,人之常情就迫使我們沿著追尋獲取的路走下去。可是,有一天,我們忽然驚覺:我們的憂鬱、無 聊、困惑、無奈、一切不快樂,都和我們的要求有關,我們之所以不快樂,是我們渴望擁有的東西太多了,或者,太執著了,不知不覺,我們已經執迷於某個事物上 了。

譬如說,你愛上了一個人,而他(她)卻不愛你,你的世界就微縮在對他(她)的感情上了,他(她)的一舉手、一投足,都能吸引你的注意力,都能成為你快樂和 痛苦的源泉。有時候,你明明知道那不是你的,卻想去強求,或可能出於盲目自信,或過於相信精誠所至、金石為開,結果不斷地努力,卻遭來不斷地挫折。有的靠 緣分,有的靠機遇,有的得需要人們能以看山看水的心情來欣賞,不是自己的不強求,無法得到的就放棄。

懂得放棄才有快樂,背著包袱走路總是很辛苦。

我們在生活中,時刻都在取與捨中選擇,我們又總是渴望著取,渴望著佔有,常常忽略了捨,忽略了佔有的反面放棄。懂得了放棄的真意,也就理解了「失之東隅, 收之桑榆」的妙諦。懂得了放棄的真意,靜觀萬物,體會與世界一樣博大的境界,我們自然會懂得適時地有所放棄,這正是我們獲得內心平衡,獲得快樂的好方法。


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